Decide to Take License, with Sally DiCesare
Welcome back to this series all about finding your bliss with Sally DiCesare. First, we covered how to breathe, then getting organized and making lists. And now, for the final three steps in the BOLDLY acronym, we have Decide, License and Yes.
Or, you may watch the entire Brand Builders TV episode (Want to be Satisfied with your Life?) below.
Let’s learn a bit more about Sally and then we’ll get right to it.
More About Sally DiCesare
While working as a dental hygienist, Sally DiCesare experienced the physical pain that exhaustion and stress can bring. Today, she’s helping other dental professionals to live their best life as the Pain-Free Practitioner.
Now it’s time to hear from Sally, in her own words, about how you can Decide, take License and say Yes!
Over to Sally…
Decide What's Important Today
Decide: What is most important today? As a business owner, decide what you need to have. Do you want more clients or more connections? Do you want to be on more podcasts? What do you want? And then reach out to those appropriate parties. You’re creating a stronger bridge every time you reach out.
Think about how many times you haven’t responded to an email, or it’s taken you months to get back to it. You weren’t dissing them; you were not disregarding the importance of that email. It just went to the wayside, down to the bottom of the pile.
The same thing is happening on the other side. Reach out again. Add humor, but decide that you’re going to do what you know how to do.
How many times do we sign up for something because it sounds like a great thing to do—like a webinar—learn tips, walk away with them, and don’t implement them? That’s called Edutainment. It’s not education.
I’m asking you to learn it and decide to practice it. Give it a good try. If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work. Move on. You’re good. You’re only moving forward.
Decide to Take License, Now
License: I’m giving you permission to set out to do what you want. Give yourself permission to really show up, to reach out to people. Because you can’t show up too big or too bright. That’s what you’re here for. Marianne Williamson is famous for saying, “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.”
And I’ll continue with that writing of hers, because we don’t always hear the rest. Just let these words wash over you. “It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that others won’t feel insecure around you. You are meant to shine, as children do. We are born to manifest the glory of God within each of us. It is not just in some of us. It is in everyone. And as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do that same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Who are you not to show up? You’re here to be you, to march to a different drummer; to be yourself. Who are you to hold back? Because you may be the one that one person is looking to—to guide them and open their eyes to possibilities.
Decide to Say Yes!
Yes: I want you to say Yes Yes Yes!
Anchor your celebration of life with a resounding Yes. Whether that means taking a day of self-care, throwing yourself 100% into a project or giving yourself permission to be you. If it’s important for you to do, do it without feeling the draining emotions of guilt or unworthiness. Let each cell of your body feel your commitment to boldly living your blissful life, your blissful journey.
So today you heard my suggestions on how to live boldly, and you can have your own. This is something to get you thinking and creating.
We went over Breathe, Organize, List, Decide, License and Yes.
If you are looking for a community of women stepping boldly into their future, I’d love for you to join me in yourblissfuljourney.com/membership. Because your journey can be brighter if you walk with friends.
You Can Decide to Live a Blissful Life
Sammy here! Much of living a blissful life is deciding to find your own bliss. Sally DiCesare is helping us to do just that, with the BOLDLY acronym: Breathe, Organize, List, Decide, License and Yes!
By following her advice, you can live a more fulfilling, blissful life. And there’s something else you can do. You can view more episodes of Brand Builders TV, then Like and Follow the Brand Builders TV Facebook page. There, you will find everything you need to live and do business with more ease and flow. Who couldn’t use more of that?